Who says you can't have fun when you're attached??
That's right.
I have been hearing people dishing out advices and exchanging notes about why being single is better and why being attached is no fun at all especially when you're around my age.
"Being in a relationship during in your youth will only waste your time. You are stuck to one person and your whole social life is killed should he have the mindset of a dictator. If he’s not, then you’re a lucky lady."
Therefore, i am one lucky lady. (=
So to conclude, doesn't mean that your social life is zilch when you're attached, and it seriously doesn't make any sense when they say that singles have more fun, because being alone = being lonely.
"Nobody can understand what a relationship is compared to a best friend until they had experience it before. "
My brother has this best friend for years now. And they made frequent calls to each other and do whatever best friends are supposed to do. But i told him that things are going to change when his friend found her partner. Because no matter what kind of friendship you had before, once you have a partner, the friend will just be another being to you. Or you have to choose between them. No best of both worlds.
But being in a relationship doesn't mean that all your friends will be gone, it's just that everybody has their own lives to pursue and children to make.
Which reminds me that i will be alone this weekend.
1 Comments:
Being attached is only fun when you are attached to the right person. Many people make the mistake of attaching just to be attached and that can be a real bummer.
Waiting for your special person is a good idea. Meanwhile, enjoy your single status.
You don't have to listen to me, though, I've only been married for
25 years.
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